2022.01.26 20:29 player82222 They NEED to drink their milk and get stronger bones
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2022.01.26 20:29 TerribleChief Fiancé said that "lowering her expectations" is her coping mechanism.
I (M30) have been dating this wonderful girl (F29) for 2 and a half years now. We got engaged a while back and are planning on marrying this year in May or June.
So here's the thing. I live a stressful life, as does everybody (including my fiancé). When I get home from work as a construction worker I am tired and need time to relax. My fiancé, on the other hand, needs attention and it needs to be my complete undivided attention at that. She works from home so I can understand that speaking with people all day and not having anyone to vent to can be taxing on the mind. I love to hear her rant about her day but its not the time for me to focus or remember key details. Now... onto why I'm posting.
So, we went away on vacation recently and in the middle of that month long trip our rental property had changed ownership. A few months before our trip we had noticed that our cheques weren't being deposited and we knew we would have to look into it when we got back. So fast forward to now. We get back and the day comes when she decides she wants me (the extroverted individual) to contact the property manager.
Usually, she deals with the finances and knows all the ins and outs of our rent (which we both pay half of).
So there I am calling the guy and I mistakenly ask about which months we owe and how we can go about paying it and whatnot. Now we would owe something like 4 months rent at this point and she was wondering if it might come out in a lump sum (as the new owners set up preauthourized payments).
MY MISTAKE was that I wasn't listening to her tell me something earlier in the week or in the past two weeks. She had been waving her hands at me as if to say that I shouldn't be asking that and I was quite confused. What she told me after I got off the phone was that she had "TOLD ME COUNTLESS TIMES" that we don't have the money for the total amount owed and that she didn't want to take money out from savings to pay for it if they did ask for it right away and that she wanted to keep it kind of discreet so we could use the week after to catch up.
(I want to point out first off that I was working while she was telling me these things as well). She had been telling me how much money she allotted for which months and from which accounts and how much. I heard all of this but had a difficult time remembering this. Now I dont know if this is common for some people, but I do this thing where I decide if something is worth remembering but ... sort of subconsciously. Like... based on the tone or importance of the topic, I will focus on it intently or vice versa. Now this, to me, felt like something she would be dealing with. SHE would be dealing with calling and asking the questions SHE wants answered. It was only natural, in my opinion, for me to not pay attention entirely(especially while at work).
So fast forward again. She is livid and says that I ruined everything. I feel down because I didn't know that I was so useless in this regard. She says I always forget things or choose not to listen. This is a bummer because I know that I am not a verbal learner as well and I do much better when I sit down and give something my focus.
*****The thing that really pushed me over the edge is when she said this phrase "I guess I have to lower my expectations of you". This felt so condescending and made me feel so utterly inadequate and shitty that I am now reconsidering everything. I don't feel valued despite knowing a have tons of worth around the house and as an attentive and loving boyfriend. This comment she said just made me feel so little; that she is settling for someone she thought would be different, for someone she believed to be an intellectual, an academic, in other words "not a construction worker". I feel unloved sometimes and I'm sure it doesn't mean that is the case for her... but my feelings matter. I'm sure of that much.
I dont know what to do. When I ask my family for advice they tell me to postpone the wedding, speak with her about how I feel and potentially end it because it is borderline abusive. I don't know what to do. I do not want to leave her, end of story. I know that I can talk to her and ask her if she is willing to consider my feelings and hopefully change her way of thinking about me.
Tl;dr girlfriend said "I guess I have to lower my expectations of you" when I made a mistake regarding finances. Made me feel inadequate and unloved.
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2022.01.26 20:29 bearwytch Sabine's art project
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2022.01.26 20:29 Adorable_Ad5534 Saw this on h3 subreddit. She got to meet Jenna and hold kermit
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2022.01.26 20:29 CorinnaBabee Hot Girls and OF Leaks
2022.01.26 20:29 gacha2machine We actually bring them home with only 10 pulls and no pity xD
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2022.01.26 20:29 Deuce_Jeuce New Updates and Changes!
As this subreddit slowly approaches the 2000-member milestone (how) I've decided to implement some new changes to make this community more professional looking and just easier to moderate over all.
In case you haven't noticed I have finally updated the rules. The old ones were very vague and unprofessional, so I decided to overhaul them entirely. If you have any criticisms or suggestions for these new ones, please let me know.
Also, I am sorry about banning fanfics between GD reddit users, none of these posts before today will be removed since many of them are an important part of this sub's history. If any of you guys seriously miss them, you can always create a separate subreddit.
I have also added post flairs! (finally) You can choose between, meme, lewd, discussion, or controversial for now.
If you have any fun ideas for user flairs, make sure to comment them under here :)
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2022.01.26 20:29 5stap Canada extends military operation in Ukraine for three years
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2022.01.26 20:29 Stock_Titan LVS | Las Vegas Sands Reports Fourth Quarter 2021 Results
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2022.01.26 20:29 SuperHotUKDeals Star Trek Online Anniversary Pack Key Giveaway viia Alienware Arena
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2022.01.26 20:29 pambannedfromchilis This is a mystery I cannot stop pondering. Who did Pam’s art work?!
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2022.01.26 20:29 VoidCrow [Hiring] Looking for artist for an anime-styled bust chart
Myself and a few collaboration partners are looking for an anime styled artist to do a bust chart, in the style of this https://imgur.com/M5SJUsK or this https://imgur.com/aICAUrE . It would ideally be a nude, waist-up depiction of each character, with a personality-appropriate pose (which will be provided) as well their heights and b/w/h measurement.
The budget would be around 30 USD to 50 USD per character. Currently there would be a total of 11 characters, with a potential for slight upwards revision.
The style in question would ideally be more Seinen, e.g. Guilty GeaBlack Lagoon etc, rather than 'kawaii', so if you're comfortable with more mature looking characters please leave your info in the comments!
Ideally we'd also like to be able to come back at some point in the future to potentially add more characters as well.
As a last note, please only leave your information in the comments, I won't answer any messages to my personal inbox.
Thank you for your time!
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2022.01.26 20:29 AeriiaAreia HUH (I'm sorry)
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2022.01.26 20:29 ILubPizza i call this one "learning to fly"
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2022.01.26 20:29 jobsinanywhere England and Cuthbert strike as Blues turn up title heat on Arsenal
2022.01.26 20:29 ravenpotter3 1 year~ of manga collecting in order of when I got them (I have a few more volumes that aren’t here since they are at my dorm)
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2022.01.26 20:29 Since1776Bvtch Big Tech owns the monopoly and needs to be stopped.
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2022.01.26 20:29 BeccaKirtlink Kishi Bashi’s album 151A brought me closer to my dad.
2022.01.26 20:29 Psychological_Code44 Boston trip this snowy weekend
My friends and I will be flying into Boston this Saturday morning for the weekend. From what I see there’s going to be a snowstorm hitting pretty hard. What are some suggestions for us to not make the trip go completely bad? We are into scenery and of course bar hopping. What are the best locations to hideout while the storm passes? Anything helps
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2022.01.26 20:29 birdsell My 1920 Houston Heights bungalow. Deleted old post because it shared a little too much
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2022.01.26 20:29 drcranberry14556 “Something about the whole violence is the answer thing would be promising to me”
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